Tuesday, December 19, 2023

UNCONSTRAINT REVELATIONS: Empowered Overcomer




This author's superpowered forte is to influence social, economic, mental, and personal development that actively encounters the beautiful and necessary transformations we all privately pursue internally while embracing equality, humanity, and healthy emotional, physical, and spiritual success.

As a charismatic, feminine, spiritually connected, happily single, supporting her journey to a likewise gentleman who supports a complementing and likewise goals and lifestyle marriage, she is a minority heroine. Her life experiences were influenced by intersubjectivity, deriving from her parent's divorce, which caused self-esteem issues, family estrangement, over-giving, and people-pleasing, combined with the loss of treasured loved ones. Her past decisions, behaviors, and actions reflected an encompassed vigorousness to seek mental health counseling to change her mindset and family interchanges. She surpassed teenage sexual assault challenges, lacking support to endure infliction, aggravation, and doubt. However, she was uplifted by various church members, her pastors, mentors, friends, other family, and God-sent angels. The beauty in life is to honor family, which are not always genetic bloodlines. They are those cherubs who encourage and support life's ups and downs.

She sought approval throughout life, as a workaholic, supporting family and disappointment which were destined to strengthen her. She's a social butterfly, describing various colors, alike Joseph and Job. However, due to childhood trauma that was never addressed or processed, mistakes and bias found the inner dysfunction within with various twists and spins. Yet, a set of unrealistic circumstances brought about undying faith, strength, hope, change, and transformation to embrace difficult conversations, support, and the requirement to establish healthy boundaries.

Life is about weathering the storms of life and adoring the lessons, for improvement to better the next generation. Beloved family members are amongst you. A couple of bad apples don't spoil the whole bunch, so learn to interact differently and accept diversity, with better understanding and know-how.

Uniqueness is great, with the proper roles, accountability, and adjusted thought processes to protect yourself and your treasured loved ones. Knowledge is power. Implanted roots have different sets of branches, such as family members with different opinions, goals, and lifestyles, yet is proper to uphold respect, morals, and values. Healthy family interactions are obtainable. There is hope, it is available. Hope, understanding, honor, and change is the answer, but it starts within. It's work, but ever so rewarding. Join me in uprooting bad branches and pruning for the best fruit that nourishes every family member's soul. The author is not a psychotherapist or counselor, but she is a doctor of Life Lessons, through trial and error. Live and let us learn together, with this autobiography, so our futures can be brighter.









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